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Love Your Job Before You Leave it

November 16, 2020 | Comments Off on Love Your Job Before You Leave it

Love your job before you leave it.  Hear me out.  When you learn that how you feel is caused by your mind, you stop trying to change the circumstance to feel better.  When you don’t understand that you keep moving jobs to find the perfect one.  Contentment isn’t somewhere else. It’s not at the next gig. Contentment…

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Career Mindset

How to Change Your Career Mindset

November 9, 2020 | Comments Off on How to Change Your Career Mindset

It’s time to change your career mindset. Here is why: I was ridiculously successful and totally empty. I couldn’t understand how a few times a month I would start the day happy and before lunch I was searching job sites. Nothing had changed. Same job, same people, same office. I made a decision to figure out why.…

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create confidence

How to Create Confidence

November 2, 2020 | Comments Off on How to Create Confidence

Early on in my career I learned how to create confidence.  It was one of the best gifts I have given myself.  But creating confidence doesn’t come from your actions and results.  It produces your actions and results.  WHAT?  Yeah, I didn’t get that at first either. Seemed upside down.  Confidence comes from a thought. Regardless of…

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Career

How to get the results you want in your career

October 26, 2020 | Comments Off on How to get the results you want in your career

How do you create a change in your career when you are frustrated by lack of results?  If you believe change is hard, you take the focus off yourself and your actions, and thus your career.  You spin. Overthink. You get advice by committee.  And you beat yourself up based on your results. The change isn’t about…

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new beliefs

How to develop new beliefs

October 19, 2020 | Comments Off on How to develop new beliefs

Are you thinking the same thoughts over and over? Do you like your results? Maybe it’s time for some new beliefs. I had lots of thought about my career and my future.  I had the same thoughts over and over.  I didn’t realize I was shaping my beliefs.  I was taking action based on what I was thinking and…

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3 surprisingly easy questions to ask yourself

3 Questions To Ask Yourself Every Day

October 12, 2020 | Comments Off on 3 Questions To Ask Yourself Every Day

Ask yourself those 3 surprisingly easy questions: What do I want to think? How do I want to feel? What do I want to do? Only 3 questions, but they have a significant impact on your life Every day I ask myself those three questions. ​Sometimes hourly🤣 I am always checking with my internal GPS, what do…

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imposter syndrome

4 Steps to Cure the Imposter syndrome

October 5, 2020 | Comments Off on 4 Steps to Cure the Imposter syndrome

My clients are achievers, but that doesn’t stop them from doubting their skills and being influenced by imposter syndrome. Some think everyone else is smarter. Others got the job but feared losing it because they are not qualified, and they’ll be ‘found out.’  Still, others have crippling anxiety every time they have to face a new professional…

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success

When success feels impossible

September 28, 2020 | Comments Off on When success feels impossible

Success is hard.  That’s a thought.  A choice.  Why do we think success is hard?  Because of our thoughts. 💥 Then we beat ourselves up for our thoughts.  Then we have feelings because of our thoughts.  You create what is possible in your career. Don’t be in such a rush to get there because it’s not better…

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micro-quitting

Are you micro-quitting and self-sabotaging your life?

September 21, 2020 | Comments Off on Are you micro-quitting and self-sabotaging your life?

Micro-quitting. It’s cunning. Quitting is big. Obvious. Micro-quitting is stealthy. It’s devious. We don’t always see the subtle, quiet decisions we make. It’s kinda passive-aggressive – but you are the passive aggressor to yourself. You’re busy. Probably stressed. Definitely overwhelmed. You are waiting for a clear shot of confidence.  You choose not to show up. You don’t…

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no is opportunity

No is an opportunity (yes, it is)

September 14, 2020 | Comments Off on No is an opportunity (yes, it is)

No is an opportunity. No is The End.  No is the beginning, according to TS Elliot.   I love all of these explanations.    No is The End has a completion to it. It’s final. And in that finality, we are now propelled to a beginning.   No is the beginning. I get a chance to really listen to…

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